Q. As the summer days stretch on and the heat of the season settles in, I find myself increasingly concerned about my mom’s well-being. I’m a teacher and I have less and less time to spend with my mom as I prepare for the upcoming school year. I worry that my mom may be feeling bored or lonely during the long days at home.
My mom recently moved to the area so that I didn’t have to worry about her being alone after my dad passed away. While I’ve enjoyed all the quality time I’ve had with her, she’s yet to make friends here. I’m fearful about her well-being once school is back in session.
My mom is vibrant and active. She enjoys a variety of hobbies and interests, from gardening and crafting to reading and exploring new recipes. She’s yet to make friends and I worry about her
How can I keep my mom engaged and fulfilled during the remaining weeks of summer? Do you have any guidance on how I can help my mom make new friends?
A. I want to extend my deepest sympathy regarding the loss of your dad. I’m pleased to hear that your mom was willing to make a big move to be closer to you. Yet, it’s also important that she forms her own friendships and isn’t completely reliant upon you for her social well-being.
Fortunately, there are many ways to keep your mom busy and engaged. The suggestions below also provide wonderful opportunities for your mom to make new friends.
Begin by looking into local senior groups and clubs. Many communities have senior centers that offer a wide range of programs and activities and are great places to form friendships. Additionally, consider reaching out to your local park district and library to discover upcoming programs or events that might pique your mom’s interest. Since your mom enjoys reading and gardening, she might be open to joining a neighborhood book club or local garden club as a way to stay engaged and meet other people.
Another suggestion is to encourage your mom to explore volunteer opportunities that align with her interests and values. Whether it’s volunteering at a local animal shelter, food bank, or community event, volunteering can provide a sense of purpose and fulfillment while also fostering connections within the community.
If your mom is tech-savvy, she may enjoy exploring online communities and forums related to her hobbies and interests. There are countless online groups where she can connect with like-minded individuals, share ideas, and participate in discussions from the comfort of her own home.
Along those lines, she may also enjoy participating in virtual classes or workshops. Many organizations offer opportunities for older adults to learn new skills, stay active, and engage in meaningful activities from home. If you can’t find anything of interest, your mom can always find tutorials on platforms like YouTube. By exploring these suggestions and encouraging your mom to stay active and engaged in her new community, you can help ensure that she remains fulfilled and connected during the remaining weeks of summer. Remember to communicate openly with her about her interests and preferences, and continue to provide love and support as she navigates this season of life.
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